Re: Love Or Lust?

by Rinoa Fri Jul 25, 2014 3:33 pm

Gee basic animal instinct, no better than rats then or worms Mmm

by X Fri Jul 25, 2014 3:34 pm

Yup

we are animals

rawr!

by Kaere Fri Jul 25, 2014 3:37 pm

You're speculating that war brides and soldiers felt lust... they may have felt love. It's much too easy to brush everyone with the same paintbrush.

by Rinoa Fri Jul 25, 2014 3:40 pm

Mr.W wrote:Yup

we are animals

rawr!

Errr but I thought we had been advanced beyond that by alien intervention?

by Agartha Fri Jul 25, 2014 3:43 pm

^^ LOL Rinoa!!

Nothing wrong with lust if that's what makes you happy.
I think we need a balance of the two.

by X Fri Jul 25, 2014 3:46 pm

But..

what if i lived elsewhere...i would of found someone else...its not Just war brides...its all of us

talk to someone You are attracted to because of lust and boom...you are in love

anytime....anywhere....anyone?

So This begs the question....do we choose Our husbands and wives correct y...because of love..or Is It Just lust and convenience...

by X Fri Jul 25, 2014 3:52 pm

Rinoa wrote:
Mr.W wrote:Yup

we are animals

rawr!

Errr but I thought we had been advanced beyond that by alien intervention?

well...we are rising to the occasion rinoa...people Everywhere are waking up...and realizing....look at divorce rates...alien intervention Is making It easier to find your soulmate.....and not settling for the Guy or gal...down the road...or...same province

You are supposed to Be with someone who truly loves You...and puts You first before no other...that Is when You Can truly become....one...enlightening Can only happen when You love.,.and recieve love equally

by Agartha Fri Jul 25, 2014 3:56 pm

Mr.W wrote:

well...we are rising to the occasion rinoa...people Everywhere are waking up...and realizing....look at divorce rates...alien intervention Is making It easier to find your soulmate.....and not settling for the Guy or gal...down the road...or...same province

You are supposed to Be with someone who truly loves You...and puts You first before no other...that Is when You Can truly become....one...enlightening Can only happen when You love.,.and recieve love equally

AMEN to that, brother!!!

by Rinoa Fri Jul 25, 2014 3:56 pm

Wrong, enlightenment is about pure love for all mankind and all other things too

by Agartha Fri Jul 25, 2014 4:00 pm

Rinoa wrote:Wrong, enlightenment is about pure love for all mankind and all other things too

There are many ways to enlightenment, Rinoa..........Whitty mentioned one. Smile

by X Fri Jul 25, 2014 4:04 pm

You cannot émit love...without receiving love...physical love

although...you Can émit love without the opposite or same sex...and That involves a belief....

to radiate love...you must Be experiencing It...in the physical....spiritually....in your mind...well...that May Be different

a flower does not radiate beauty...without first accepting the sun...and It awaits It Daily...and reaches for It...and follows It...and while It does...u stand back...and Watch...in awe

by Rinoa Fri Jul 25, 2014 4:06 pm

Good lord, you cannot receive love without loving yourself first, and not in the naughty way either

by X Fri Jul 25, 2014 4:06 pm

Rinoa wrote:Wrong, enlightenment is about pure love for all mankind and all other things too

True...but...ever Watch a kitten That wasnt experiencing love...or a Child...life needs to feel love physically...your celle react differently...enlightenment Is also about biology

by X Fri Jul 25, 2014 4:08 pm

Rinoa wrote:Good lord, you cannot receive love without loving yourself first, and not in the naughty way either

false

have You ever loved someone who thought of themselves as no good?

recieve It...become it

by Rinoa Fri Jul 25, 2014 4:19 pm

Yes I have felt love for someone who thought they were no good and I still do love them, he is called Joshua and he is my son, I have always loved him of course, he was bullied at school and through that he lost his confidence and self worth despite the continual reassurance I gave him, he became recluse like, not wanting to leave the house or care about his personal appearance, thankfully another person helped me to start getting him to go out and care about his appearance again, seven years ago he met a girl and they fell in love, yes she loves him despite the fact that he still has confidence issues, now are you telling me that because my son had no self worth that I should of stopped loving him, or his girlfriend should never have fallen in love with him?

by Agartha Fri Jul 25, 2014 4:21 pm

I see what you mean,Riona, you also need to love yourself and I agree. But I agree with physical love too, it is an important part of who we are.......and a beautiful extension to spiritual love.

EDIT: Whitty never said you shouldn't love your son like that or that his girlfriend shouldn't either. In fact, your son received love without loving himself first........and that's what Whitty was trying to explain.

by X Fri Jul 25, 2014 4:28 pm

by Rinoa Fri Jul 25, 2014 4:28 pm

I admit that before I started my spiritual journey, I also would lust, but I find now that that part of me has gone.

As for what Mr.W said I may of mistakenly taken it the wrong way

by X Fri Jul 25, 2014 4:31 pm

Its ok to lust....i think the body Is supposed to attract too...like a flower attracts the bee

by Rinoa Fri Jul 25, 2014 4:37 pm

I'm not denying the emotion of lust, I just don't feel it anymore, maybe it's because it is like in the same category of emotions such as anger and hate both of these emotions are not necessary and no good comes from them, they are just negative emotions

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